Flickr Files: Kisses For V-Day

It's a simple formula.  A sincere kiss makes the recipient smile.  It makes them happy.  It's free, it's pleasurable and it's easy.  You can be straight, gay, bi, black, white, purple or green.  You can kiss your dog, your baby, your lover.  It's all good.

So I set about finding some of the most poignant and beautiful photos that shows the simple power of the kiss. None of us do it enough. All of us should do it more.  So for pre-Valentines Day inspiration, here is my Flickr Files post of the week:  Kisses for V-Day:

Kiss

Stolen kiss

Stealing a kiss from the princess.

Dave and Charley

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Set a Modern Table

If you are like me, you like to entertain in style.  Summer in the Hamptons is a special time for us, with many guests just popping in, sometimes unannounced, and we welcome it all because it's a brief time of sun, beach and, best of all, dining with one another under the stars.  Here are some new faves I found that make the table not only beautiful, but functional with a modern bent without being too *trendy*.


Vino Vino Wine Tumbler
SPIGELAU Vino Vino Wine Tumbler The affordable elegance of the Spiegelau Vino Vino Stemless Tumbler is a glass that can be used every day. Machine made, these high performance glasses are produced using modern glass making technology. Vino Vino's stemless everyday tumbler offers the classic shape of stemless glasses, that are compact and fit neatly away for storage and cleaning. Sold as set of 4. 5% Lead Crystal. Size: 4-1/2"H, 16-1/4 oz. Proposition 65 Warning for California Residents: Use of this product will expose you to lead, a chemical known to the State of California to cause birth defects or other reproductive harm. You may also obtain a list of each brand of leaded crystal and tableware for which this warning is given.


Vera Wang Grosgrain Napkin Rings, Set of 4

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Writing & Progress

I've been writing a novel for two years now. It isn't the first novel I've ever written, but it will be the first I will eventually show people - hopefully my agent and others. What's taking so long? Good question, though difficult to answer in a quick blog post. It's hellish.  My first book, Behind Bars: The Straight-Up Tales of a Big City Bartender, was nothing compared to this.  After all, that was a memoir, everything had happened, I just had to document it in an organized witty way - which I hope I accomplished. 

The most challenging part of writing every day (besides the utter isolation), is snapping out of the story. Living in one's head is incredibly difficult when trying to maintain a *normal* family life, as trying to break out of character takes some time. Not a good idea to be writing right before dinner... especially if you want to chit chat about whatever whilst passing the butter. Last night I couldn't stop thinking about a dream I had about one of the characters in the book. Sometimes a character, whether fictional or real, will take over your life. I haven't been able to stop thinking about him for longer than five minutes. What would he do at dinner? Would he talk about the rumored coup? Would he go on a hunger strike? Yada yada... So stop writing at least an hour before dinner. It's quite distracting.

The issue is that writing is such a grueling process. I hadn't mapped it out as well as I thought from the start. Then a minor character became a major player, thus changing the landscape completely. So around Thanksgiving of last year, I had to trash all of the previous version of the book and start anew with what I had. What helped tremendously was outlining the story from beginning to end, leaving less moments to writer's block, and more to just "aha!" moments, as the process resumed. I can't emphasize enough how important it has been to flesh out every single character, every scene, ever intimation. If I had done that sooner, I might have been finished by now, instead of having to trash 350 pages of story that really needed that extra something.

xo

Lit Life by Kurt Wenzel 2001 Lit Life by Kurt Wenzel 2001 Paypal US $1.02 28d 20h 8m
Wenzel Kurt GOTHAM TRAGIC A NOVEL Wenzel Kurt GOTHAM TRAGIC A NOVEL Paypal US $11.95 16d 10h 1m
Gotham Tragic A Novel by Kurt Wenzel Gotham Tragic A Novel by Kurt Wenzel Paypal US $5.18 24d 23h 30m
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The Snuggle Spot

Kyle has been asking for me to sleep with him recently, since he had a nightmare a few weeks ago.  Although I should not be doing this, I just can't resist the "snuggle spot."  He came up with it, actually.  It's when I spoon his little body that's curled up like in a little fetal position, his face nuzzled in my neck.  It just feels so good, so maternal, so natural.  I actually feel sorry for men because I don't think they have the ability to feel the "snuggle spot" since I think it is exclusively a maternal thing.  If I am wrong, please correct me.

So I think I will be finding excuses to sleep with Kyle for the next few weeks... for a hit of the snuggle spot... ahhhh...

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